Heart hope for that one Happy Ending!

[The phone rang in a room at 4:00 AM]

Kavya: Hey! Are you okay?

Siddharth: Yaa! I am all right. What happened to you?

Kavya: NO! I just had a nightmare.

Siddharth: Are you kidding me? You are calling because of a nightmare.

Kavya: OKAY SORRY! Take care. Call me if you need anything.

Siddharth: Such a kid you’re! [And he hanged up the call]

                      Hello and welcome to Stories. Facts and Dreams!

Kavya is back with another storyline that will make you happy & emotional at the same time. I don’t know but there might be hundreds of people who have a similar story, who can relate to this experience.

The story is all about Kavya and Siddharth roller coaster friendship.

The beautiful friendship of kavya and Siddharth started when they were in 5th grade. It’s been 10 years of friendship and they never felt the need of anyone else, theirs are a roaring friendship. They trusted each other to the core and swore not to leave each other side.

They could talk and talk for an hour, spending most of their time on the phone, their small fights are a sign of their strong friendship and love between them. The friendship is real and so are the fights and they always make sure that they both get what they need and that brings them closer. Few things will fuel intimacy, connection and closeness like being seen, being heard and coming through a storm side by side.

There were days in kavya’s life where she believed there is nothing wrong in this world and she could never be unhappy or sad at any moment. She can't describe how happy she feels in his presence. She can't even begin to describe the love she has for him. Yes! The Love

Rewind to 2016:

Making fun of each other, calling each other for no reason, seeing each other at their worst, the time when she realized their roaring friendship turns into love for him, She realized she was in love, and it scared the crap out of her.

She didn’t want to be in love with her closest friend because she was afraid of losing him, but even more so, she was afraid of being rejected, because she knew he didn’t feel the same way. 

For the past 3 years, she is preparing herself that one day he will leave her and she will be all alone.

One sunny afternoon, when kavya and her friend doing shopping and packing bags for their reunion party, her friend’s words of wisdom, “instead of avoiding the reality and your feelings, the first step is to acknowledge what it is, being honest about your emotions and being vulnerable won’t destroy you” gave her a ray of hope.

After gathering all the courage, she decided to talk about her feelings to Siddharth and she finally called him but there was no answer. She decided to confess her feelings at the tomorrow reunion party.

Kavya has only 9hours from that moment to plan something delightful and make him feel special.

She arranged everything so beautifully that any guy can fall in love with.

A gift, a letter and his favourite food!

The day arrives and Kavya is all set to blow the gaff.

It’s 6:30 in the evening when she decided to play a game and confess her feelings to Siddharth, But things are not always as they seem, while crossing the dinner table she overheard that Siddharth is already secretly in a relationship with someone and the girl is from his college and they are quite happy with each other.

Those 4 words were enough to ruin everything.

She felt lost, confused and heartbroken.

Tears came down from her eyes and thinking about him, how she was always cheerful only to make him happy. All their memories flashed in front of her eyes and tears were rolling down her face. She felt helpless and shattered. She smiled a hesitant smile and left the party.

“Why?!” she yelled as loudly as she could.

“How can someone be so sugar-coated and hide things from you?

A boy who shares everything with her why not shared such a life-changing story with her?

What is the meaning of being a best friend for the last 10 years?

How Can you love someone who is already in a relationship?”

Tons of questions to ask but she respects their relationship and back off because it will be like putting a grain of salt in her wounds.

The next 3 weeks were surely crucial for her, her biggest fear came in real-time but still, after preparing herself for 3 years her heart wasn’t ready, she tried to heal at her own pace.

After a time span of 2month kavya decided to leave for her abroad studies with a smile on her face, Without informing anyone she left the country with her untold feelings.

Kavya knows love isn't about what makes you feel good. It's about genuinely caring about what makes the other person feel good and choosing that over your own happiness. She knows that falling in love has no rulebook.

Some people don't get their happy endings and you never know where you are getting with your untold feelings until it’s the end and when things end you don’t cry because it ended you just try to put up the smile and be grateful that it happened. Everything will pass like all things do, even LOVE.

2years now, when she finds herself on the train of thought headed to the past for too long, she kindly takes her ticket and head to the exit door.

Ink pen, 5 years and Diary pages!

Only the diary knows how much she still loves him”

Thankyou For Reading ❤

This is Shraddha Kshirsagar signing off. See you soon in another blog with a new storyline till then take care and spread happiness.

Had a similar experience? How did you handle it? 

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Chief Happiness Officer

You guys might be thinking why I titled this blog as Chief Happiness Officer but being a digital marketer/content creator and working with a firm where I regularly deal with the Chief marketing officer, chief information officer and chief financial officer from the last 4 month, I couldn’t stop myself from titled this blog as chief happiness officer and the main reason is I want you guys to become chief happiness officer in your life and I would love if only 1% of my readers will become one.

Hello and Welcome to stories, facts and dreams.

Some time ago I was sitting on my terrace looking at the sky and thinking what happiness really means to me?

I don’t get the answer then but on the other day, I saw a post on Facebook, it’s probably only 30% true and written by a 16-year-old boy but regardless, I found it wrong, and at the very least, thought-provoking.

[Facebook Post]:

"HAPPINESS is having that one person in our life".

[Thoughts in my mind]: 

What if this one person leaves you?

What if this person belongs to someone else?

What if someone doesn’t have this person?

Is having someone by your side is the only happiness nowadays?

“No, my answer is something different,” - I commented on the post

Today I ask you what happiness means to you?

So how do you respond to this question? No one could answer this without thinking for while.

Do you guys want to know what my answer was?

I commented, “Happiness is freedom, Happiness is letting go of your worries”. Yes! You read it right "letting go of your worries”

I know the meaning of happiness varies from person to person. What makes one person happy won’t make another person feel the same. It’s even something that changes over time. If I asked you and your friend what happiness means to you, the two answers would be wildly different. There is no universally agreed-upon definition of happiness and that’s the reason, I don’t want this blog to become a guide or advice clinic. Rather, this is just me, having been inspired by a wonderful lecture on life and happiness, trying to work out what I think being happy means to me.

The reason I commented “Happiness is freedom, Happiness is letting go of your worries because, Once u started expressing yourself, once you find freedom for yourself, once you started feeling free. You find peace and for me, that’s the happiness and I think everyone would agree on this point.

If you want to switch your job, feel free and switch

If you want to change your lifestyle, feel free and change

If you want to leave the relationship, feel free and express

If you want to confess, feel free and confess

If you want to fly, give up everything that weighs you down.

Don’t burden yourself with the things you are not happy about. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and you will be happy.

In my experience, the people who struggle with the so-called “life purpose” question, always complain that they don’t know what to do. But the real problem is not that they don’t know what to do. It’s that they don’t know what to give up.

Feel free. Fly happily

Manage your FOMO (Fear of missing out).

When u move beyond your fear, you feel free.

Happiness is freedom.

How to decide what happiness is for you?

As I said in the intro part, Happiness may be different from person to person but I think some key signs that assessing happiness is-

Feeling like you are living the life you wanted.

Feeling like something is giving you peace inside out.

Feeling that balance your emotional state.

Feeling when u feel satisfied with yourself.

Your happiness is not in anyone’s hand, feel free to express it.

Remember!

As  stars belong to the sky,

Happiness belongs to you.

Aahhh happiness! It sounds so simple, doesn’t it?

Thank you for visiting my blog. If you're new here, you should check out my other blogs as well.

This is Shraddha Kshirsagar saying adieu to all. See you soon in the next blog with a new story and new dreams.

Unbolt Your Dreams!

No one in this universe lives without a life goal. Everyone has a dream in their life, some scaled-down their dreams for some reason and others are carrying the burden of their own dream but, how many of us are willing to gamble our living to fulfil our dreams?

Dreams need to discover, Dreams need to chase.

And if you have it in your heart, then don’t give it a cold shoulder. Dare to live the life you have dreamed of. Nobody has a perfect life, everyone deals with their problem, the only difference is some people just know how to deal with it and achieve their goal. You have everything you need if you just believe in yourself. Yes indeed there will be obstacles, there will be doubters but don’t build a prison around yourself, Be like eagle, silent and keep the strength to touch the sky.

There are 75% of people who blame everything on everyone, who make excuses, who think negative, who want everything in the first try but working on your dreams is not that easy, you have to give up your comfort because nothing is as easy as you’d thought it would be. Don’t find a reason to give up. Set yourself free and it becomes more than you imagine.

Kobi Yamada once said “ Follow your dreams they know the way” and I believe in it, dreams do come true, they might not come when you want them but they come in their own time.

Take a chance.

Don’t wait for the right time, the time will never be just right, start where you stand. Bring out the best in yourselves. No matter what you want to become an actor, a writer, an entrepreneur, a photographer or anything, you just have to work hard enough and believe in yourself because successful people are not god gifted, they just work hard and succeed on purpose. keep your head up and your feet on the ground.

It’s time to unlock your potential, plan your first step, spread your wings and fly high. Tell yourself, if you can dream it, you can do it. No matter how many times you fall, get up one more time and work hard “Fall Seven Times, Stand Up Eight” for your dream. Remember everything has a happy end.

 

Sending you Strength, Courage, Hope and Peace. Thank you for reading ❤

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not love at first sight

Do you believe in love at first sight?

You might say yes.

But I don't believe in it, because for me a person's nature is more important than his looks, sure a person’s looks are nice but nature and personality are what matters the most. Always look for a lovely heart who understand you in all possible reason and know your flaws and accept who you are because“Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”

I Believe love is the most beautiful feeling anyone could ever feel but we forget that it takes time to find and even longer to develop. People usually fall for all eye catchy things out there, beauty with a bare face and mocked up words and then felt the pain of losing someone Who was not even their.

Today a girl named kavya has brought a similar story for you.

काव्या लिखती हैं-

With you, it was not  love at first sight,

But gradually I started to believe in candlelight.

 

I know the feelings was not mutual,

For you, it was usual

 

Feelings started increasing with your sugarcoated lies,

And I was head over heels with all your replies,

 

Love, feelings, affection remained at the corner side,

When I found out the things you lied.

 

Then I chose to let the spark die inside,

with every possible side.

 

The problem was not you, it was me,

The paradise I dreamt was just mean.

Soon I realised it was not love,

It was just a beautiful dream.

Where I believed in never-ending bliss,

but I was wrong it was just a wish!

And Kavya learned the biggest lesson of her life. Don’t be like kavya. Trust the action, trust the efforts and fall for reality because it exists all the time.

This is Shraddha Kshirsagar saying adieu to all. See you soon in another blog with new storyline till then take care and spread happiness.

Thankyou For Reading ❤

“You Are Handsome too”

 

Hello and welcome to Stories, facts and dreams.

Thank you for the wonderful respond to my first blog. Here is something you probably want to check out today.

I think the title is enough to tell you about today’s topic. Yes! Today’s blog is on a boy, rather it’s on boys and men around us.

We live in a society where gender equality and Women Empowerment is the global issue, Gender equality means both Men and Women have the same rights and same power to express oneself, but believe me or not men’s topic is often overlooked that they also desire the sort of understanding and affection as well. They too have feelings and emotions, they too need freedom of expression. I know now some people will say that “same goes for women too” and of course, it goes for women too, it should go both ways and that’s called the real gender equality and I feel, We girls are lucky because we can get it from lots of people around us.

Men are just as vital as that of women, then why they are constantly taught to be tough, to stick to the character that is seen as masculine, to hide their emotions but give the emotional support to their family when needed, otherwise the society will not accept them and that’s the reason they decide to remain strong and afraid to express themselves in the fear of world judging them. I personally experienced it when one of my friends lost his father, and he was not able to express himself properly, no one asked him to cry as much as he wants without any fear, no one asked him to feel comfortable to share his thoughts. Is it because, he has a responsibility towards his family, or just because he is a boy?

Remember, an individual can only hold so much on their own until they break from choked feelings. It kills me from inside when I think about this and I hope the society sooner accept the fact that men are also allowed to be sensitive and to show emotions and it is not necessary to pretend to be fine all the time. They are humans too. It’s okay to be not okay.

I feel it’s our responsibility to ask them about the things which they don't want to talk about, support them, be the pillar of strength for them, compliment them, make them feel safe and home and thanks them for being there all the time.

This blog is surely dedicated to my dad, my brothers, male friends and of course all the men out there. Thank you for your existences.

This is Shraddha Kshirsagar saying adieu to all. See you soon in the next blog with a new story and new dreams.

 Thank you for reading ❤

Be The person You would Love!

Hey Everyone!

Welcome to the launch of a newly developed website where I can share my stories, dreams and some facts. My name is Shraddha Kshirsagar and am so excited to share with you all more.

As I am writing this blog for people around me I want to ask you some questions-

Does anyone love to take hate?

Does anyone love inhumane or nasty behaviour?

I think the answer would be no.

Our life is like a notebook, two pages “Birth and Death” are already written by god and we have to fill the centre pages with love, smile and sacrifice not with hate and false attitude.

Once my friend asked me why don’t people around us be kind? why they always spread hate? My response at first was It's always easy to blame others. You can spend your entire life blaming the world for not being kind to you,  Instead of questioning others, why not you? Start with yourself first then ask the world to do it. Because being a good person is just a blessing to those around you.  

Be someone you would love.

In today’s time people need love and affection just like plants need sunlight and water to grow and I think we all have that potential to show others love and affection but as we progress in a materialistic world and meet some adversary people, these values remain dormant. We develop it based on our experience and refuse to do good things for others and believe in “Tit for Tat” gameplay but trust me if you do good and be kind to people around you, then there will be no dirt on you and nobody could ever pull out the victim card on you. Never put people through the same things you went through. Do better.

Always remember never stop being a good person because of bad people. Don’t lash out or hurt him/her back. It might sound wrong to most of the people or may be they don’t agree on my points but the thing is “kindness and love is the only key to happiness” and I believe we all have these qualities within us. Remember giving isn’t just about money, your smile, a thoughtful gesture, time, care and kind words is more than any financial gift. Kindness towards nature, animals, people can transform the world and make a beautiful place to live.

See you soon in another blog. 

Thank you for reading❤